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Oct 10, 2006

A Good One



People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

19 comments:

Twisted DNA said...

Interesting analysis. After reading it, I realized I have too many seasonal relationships :(

Ekta said...

gttt post!!
But pt being do we actually ever come to know the reason why people come into our lives...am still trying to fuguyre this one out!

Kalpana said...

Reason, season, lifetime... I think I met everyone. But still need 2 c what's up in life. A good post!!!

Has to be me said...

This is a good one & seen this b4.....reason / season whatever....as long as good ppl r filled in our lives, no hassles at all. :)

BTW, u r tagged dear!

priya said...

That was a beautiful post and I wonder how many people realize or think of such needs.

artnavy said...

most of mine have been largely seasonal- but yes they were/are the flavour of that season

mommyof2 said...

interesting:-)

Krupa said...

Somehow from Dhaval's blog, I came to this post. Have read only this post so far. It's a nice post. Looks like you are motivated by spiritual matters in your life.

But sometimes what you believe, you can not follow in your life because of the circumstances. I wish everyone learns higher values without experiencing any seasonal separation in relationship. (Well that never happens though) :-)

Good luck! Keep learning.

shruti said...

seasons and reason do comes in our life and gone after some times..but left their impressions for life time...

itchingtowrite said...

can identify situations what u have mentioned that took place for me
reminds me of my post = a reason to be of september

Sush said...

TD: I found it interesting as well.

Ekta: Welcome back, good to see you back.

Caps: yup, we meet each and everyone of the types.

HTBM: Will take it up... :-).

Mom of two and Priya: :-)

Shruti and krupa: welcome.

AN: flavor of the season for a reason :-).

ITW: gonna check.

Tanushree said...

wonderful post...
we have so many relations that comes in our life and then leave us with so many good memories to cherish always..

La vida Loca said...

yup it is interesting as it is true...

artnavy said...

TAGGED you - The Power of three. Pl oblige.

Has to be me said...

r u well? Long time no c?!

Dr@ma Div@ said...

happy diwali!

Keshi said...

Interesting!

Keshi.

Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind. said...

very well said, but its difficult when people move on.

Daddy's Girl said...

May I borrow this, Sush? I absolutely love it and would love to share it. Of course, will give you full credit.

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