There is neither a structure nor a texture to this blog. The subject matter can be anything and everything under the sky that I feel about at any given point that I happen to sit and blog rambling about everything in general. My thoughts and views are basically influenced by what I read, hear, gather, and ponder... if there is any copyright violation which I have not duly acknowledged, kindly let me know.
My world comprises of LO the little one, OA the other adult at home, kiddo the brother :)
Oct 22, 2007
Family is something which really matters to an individual, that is where we spend our formative years and their decisions, good or bad, will have a profound impact on the rest of our lives. There are times when I wanted to take a break from my own and rather be left alone but then again, heart is where home is (for me at least). Just when I think I am done with all the responsiblities and have a life of our own (me and OH) I feel this absolute need to go back and check on my mom. Well, for some it might seem extravagance, less-thoughtout action, not-needed thing, a big financial dent, etc., I think it is the least I can do for her, be there on her retirement and see to it that she is settled well after her long service to the office and the family. So, here I go after a lot of thought, agreements, and disagreements to be there with her at the time that is really a turning point in her life, which leaves her at cross-roads to make some crucial decisions. If nothing I would just be a pillar to lean on and just be there!! Old school of thought says parents are the son's responsibility, so that leaves my brother with the load, well I feel it is high time he takes up some too and I take a back seat, but still I think it is my duty to be there, a moment which I would never want to regret missing. Wish my mom good luck and a good life after retirement!!! Miss my amma all the more :((